09/20

You can’t act like nothing happened. It happened and what you said was just plain wrong. It hurt me more than it would have if it was any other person, but because it was you, my best friend, it made me almost hate you for the rest of my day.

First off, all I did was arrange a ride and the two met. I did not play match maker.
Secondly, how was I supposed to control what happened between them? What happened between them was their own responsibilities. The girl put herself too far out there, giving the guy the wrong impression, and got hurt. The guy lost interest because the poor girl was too accessible. Their relationship was not balanced. Is any of that my control? No. So even if I was playing “match maker,” the maker is never to blame.
I refuse to take any blame over this. As my friend, aren’t you supposed to be on my side in something like this? Why did you go against me like that? You brought it up completely out of no where! You found your scapegoat. Me. Either you were having a really shitty day or I did/said something to piss you off and you decided to take it all out on me in some rude text messages. Mocking me with your “lol” and “lmao.” You said, “Truth hurts.” It’s not the truth, yet why is it hurting so much? Because of you, “best friend.”

You said that he was my friend and I should have known his intentions. But there is no hundred percent way a person can know someone else’s ideas or purpose, no matter how well you know him/her. He is a good person and a good friend. And I’m sorry I didn’t come to his aid sooner when you were attacking him/me. It’s not wholey his fault they didn’t work out either. So don’t you dare just blame me or him in this. The pair should take blame together.

We were both guilty of assuming and made asses out of ourselves. I’ll agree to that much. But I tried to make things right by talking to each of the three people and finding out their perspectives. Everyone is okay with each other.

I hope we will be okay too.